“Testing” His Love: Good Idea or Best Way to Doom Your Relationship?

According to a poll conducted by WhatsYourPrice.com, 3 out of 5 women “test” their significant others to see if the relationship will last. As the co-owner of a company with one of the few scientifically proven compatibility test (see http://www.academicjournals.org/JMCS/contents/2010cont/April.htm), I felt it important to set the record straight when it comes to predicting the […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 4

From Fantasy to Reality – Love in the NOW In Part I you discovered that Chemistry is a very real phenomenon that can last a lifetime, but seldom does because other relationship factors come into play. You also found out that half the population is misguided; hence our ridiculously high divorce rates. In Part II […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 3

Is Your “Picker” Broken”? If you read Part II of this series, then you should be ready to shed any guilt, resentment, blame or shame about spending time with anyone. Today we are going to focus on chemistry and romance, so lets Tango! When you are overwhelmed by chemistry one of two things is going […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 2

You are Not Hard-wired for Guilt In the first segment to this series I said that 50% of the population has a “broken picker”. This is because Chemistry is a result of a “hard wired” energetic pattern you were born with. The old adage that “Men are attracted to women like their mothers” and “Women […]

The Real Truth about Chemistry, Part 1

It can get you in real trouble, both good and bad! This isn’t news to some enlightened men and woman who already figured out that following their attractions consistently ends in a train wreck. But it continues to be a subject that every relationship coach and therapist has something to say about. The problem is […]

Romance Shmomance

Do you like Valentines Day? I use to love it and spent hours and sometimes weeks planning for that special day when I could demonstrate my undeniable love for my sweetheart. The obvious question is, “Why did I wait?” The same goes for Romance. I used to call myself an “Incurable Romantic.” Well, thank goodness […]