Vegetable Phallicies

Grilled Braised Leeks and Maui Onions with Baked Yams   Salvador Dali portrayed it best with his numerous paintings of food and his insistence that our epicurean pleasures are a very close second to sex. So much of what comes out of the garden closely resembles delicious parts of our bodies. It follows that a […]

What Sexual Type Are You?

When it come to sexual compatibility there are two very specific energetic sexual types. If you’re not the same as your partner, making sure you know how to satisfy them and yourself is a must. The two types are Mental/Emotional and Physical. Every person is either one or the other. The Mental/Emotional needs to be […]

Are you dating an “Older” man?

Today I was taken aback for a moment by a comment from a guy that doesn’t know me to a lady I am close friends with. He said to her, “I heard you were hanging out with an old man.” I had a momentary “ouch.”  I consider myself “older” but in no way old. In […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 4

From Fantasy to Reality – Love in the NOW In Part I you discovered that Chemistry is a very real phenomenon that can last a lifetime, but seldom does because other relationship factors come into play. You also found out that half the population is misguided; hence our ridiculously high divorce rates. In Part II […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 3

Is Your “Picker” Broken”? If you read Part II of this series, then you should be ready to shed any guilt, resentment, blame or shame about spending time with anyone. Today we are going to focus on chemistry and romance, so lets Tango! When you are overwhelmed by chemistry one of two things is going […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 2

You are Not Hard-wired for Guilt In the first segment to this series I said that 50% of the population has a “broken picker”. This is because Chemistry is a result of a “hard wired” energetic pattern you were born with. The old adage that “Men are attracted to women like their mothers” and “Women […]

The Real Truth about Chemistry, Part 1

It can get you in real trouble, both good and bad! This isn’t news to some enlightened men and woman who already figured out that following their attractions consistently ends in a train wreck. But it continues to be a subject that every relationship coach and therapist has something to say about. The problem is […]

I can cook you into bed

I had some guy friends over for dinner the other night and a very funny thing happened. I love to cook. I mean it, not just good tasting food, but complete multi-course meals with artistically plated dishes. The kind of stuff you see in 5-star restaurants. So without making your mouth water or having you […]

Romance Shmomance

Do you like Valentines Day? I use to love it and spent hours and sometimes weeks planning for that special day when I could demonstrate my undeniable love for my sweetheart. The obvious question is, “Why did I wait?” The same goes for Romance. I used to call myself an “Incurable Romantic.” Well, thank goodness […]