Single Parents Beware!

Your legacy may be your child’s mental, emotional and economic demise. Your boys will grow up to be under achievers, poor contributors to the workforce, and unsuccessful in relationships. Your girls will be highly educated, independent, financial more secure than men and very likely also single mothers. OUCH! Can this be true? (Read more…)

Vegetable Phallicies

Grilled Braised Leeks and Maui Onions with Baked Yams   Salvador Dali portrayed it best with his numerous paintings of food and his insistence that our epicurean pleasures are a very close second to sex. So much of what comes out of the garden closely resembles delicious parts of our bodies. It follows that a […]

What If She Can’t Tell The Parents?

Dating someone can be hard. Finding out that she hasn’t told her parents can be even harder. You’ve been dating for half a year and at least half that time sleeping, eating, shopping and entertaining together. Life is good. So good you’re wondering why you still have separate homes. You have your moments and always work […]

“Testing” His Love: Good Idea or Best Way to Doom Your Relationship?

According to a poll conducted by WhatsYourPrice.com, 3 out of 5 women “test” their significant others to see if the relationship will last. As the co-owner of a company with one of the few scientifically proven compatibility test (see http://www.academicjournals.org/JMCS/contents/2010cont/April.htm), I felt it important to set the record straight when it comes to predicting the […]

What Sexual Type Are You?

When it come to sexual compatibility there are two very specific energetic sexual types. If you’re not the same as your partner, making sure you know how to satisfy them and yourself is a must. The two types are Mental/Emotional and Physical. Every person is either one or the other. The Mental/Emotional needs to be […]

Are you dating an “Older” man?

Today I was taken aback for a moment by a comment from a guy that doesn’t know me to a lady I am close friends with. He said to her, “I heard you were hanging out with an old man.” I had a momentary “ouch.”  I consider myself “older” but in no way old. In […]

Sex is our greatest addiction

I don’t have an addictive personality. I’ve dabbled in just about everything. I’ve smoked, gambled, tried any number of substances, but I’ve never been hooked on any of them so badly that I couldn’t stop. I consider myself fortunate. But there is one thing that is a total contradiction to what I have just professed. […]

Romance Shmomance

Do you like Valentines Day? I use to love it and spent hours and sometimes weeks planning for that special day when I could demonstrate my undeniable love for my sweetheart. The obvious question is, “Why did I wait?” The same goes for Romance. I used to call myself an “Incurable Romantic.” Well, thank goodness […]