Single Parents Beware!

Your legacy may be your child’s mental, emotional and economic demise. Your boys will grow up to be under achievers, poor contributors to the workforce, and unsuccessful in relationships. Your girls will be highly educated, independent, financial more secure than men and very likely also single mothers. OUCH! Can this be true? (Read more…)

Vegetable Phallicies

Grilled Braised Leeks and Maui Onions with Baked Yams   Salvador Dali portrayed it best with his numerous paintings of food and his insistence that our epicurean pleasures are a very close second to sex. So much of what comes out of the garden closely resembles delicious parts of our bodies. It follows that a […]

5 Date Night Ideas For Couples Who Love To Cook

Looking for the most delicious and stimulating date night ideas. Start in the kitchen. Why the kitchen?  Because the next closest thing to a full body orgasm is seeing, smelling and eating something that ignites our taste buds, exceeds our imagination, and plays with our senses so that your body and mind delights in gastronomic […]

“Testing” His Love: Good Idea or Best Way to Doom Your Relationship?

According to a poll conducted by WhatsYourPrice.com, 3 out of 5 women “test” their significant others to see if the relationship will last. As the co-owner of a company with one of the few scientifically proven compatibility test (see http://www.academicjournals.org/JMCS/contents/2010cont/April.htm), I felt it important to set the record straight when it comes to predicting the […]

What Sexual Type Are You?

When it come to sexual compatibility there are two very specific energetic sexual types. If you’re not the same as your partner, making sure you know how to satisfy them and yourself is a must. The two types are Mental/Emotional and Physical. Every person is either one or the other. The Mental/Emotional needs to be […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 4

From Fantasy to Reality – Love in the NOW In Part I you discovered that Chemistry is a very real phenomenon that can last a lifetime, but seldom does because other relationship factors come into play. You also found out that half the population is misguided; hence our ridiculously high divorce rates. In Part II […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 3

Is Your “Picker” Broken”? If you read Part II of this series, then you should be ready to shed any guilt, resentment, blame or shame about spending time with anyone. Today we are going to focus on chemistry and romance, so lets Tango! When you are overwhelmed by chemistry one of two things is going […]

The Real Truth About Chemistry, Part 2

You are Not Hard-wired for Guilt In the first segment to this series I said that 50% of the population has a “broken picker”. This is because Chemistry is a result of a “hard wired” energetic pattern you were born with. The old adage that “Men are attracted to women like their mothers” and “Women […]

The Real Truth about Chemistry, Part 1

It can get you in real trouble, both good and bad! This isn’t news to some enlightened men and woman who already figured out that following their attractions consistently ends in a train wreck. But it continues to be a subject that every relationship coach and therapist has something to say about. The problem is […]

Sex is our greatest addiction

I don’t have an addictive personality. I’ve dabbled in just about everything. I’ve smoked, gambled, tried any number of substances, but I’ve never been hooked on any of them so badly that I couldn’t stop. I consider myself fortunate. But there is one thing that is a total contradiction to what I have just professed. […]